Late
last week a semi-frantic email went out from one of my clergy colleagues here
asking if any of us priests on the staff had a copy of a certain book by some
New Testament scholars doing an academic analysis of the Christmas
stories. It seemed that this person
wanted to do some deep theological reading before attempting to preach on those
daunting infancy narratives. I didn’t
respond to this email right away, because it turns out that at the very moment
it was sent I was at home ransacking my wife Kathy’s children’s book collection
in search of a Christmas Day sermon illustration for myself. Kathy is a former elementary school
librarian, and one big part of our library is crammed with easy readers,
picture books, and young adult fiction.
It’s by far the coolest part of our house.
After a couple of
hours of intense scrounging, I didn’t find a children’s book that would help,
but I did come across one of our many copies of A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens. I sat down and started, once again, to read
this wonderful and quite profound Christmas story. And what struck me this time was not any of
the more familiar moments in the book—“I wear the chains I forged in
life!” “Are there no prisons?” “Mankind
was my business!” “God bless us every
one!” Instead, I was drawn into a little-known
moment where the Ghost of Christmas Present comes to visit Scrooge. You may remember how the ghost shows Scrooge
how the Cratchit family can joyfully celebrate Christmas even with their
relative poverty and Tiny Tim’s illness.
Right after that the ghost whisks Scrooge off to see how universal the
celebration of Christmas is around the world, even under very harsh
conditions: in a coal mine, on a
lighthouse, aboard a ship. As the
narrator explains when they get to the ship,
Every man among them hummed a Christmas tune, or had a
Christmas thought, or spoke below his breath to his companion of some bygone
Christmas Day, with homeward hopes belonging to it. And every man on board,
waking or sleeping, good or bad, had had a kinder word for another on that day
than on any day in the year; and had shared to some extent in its festivities;
and had remembered those he cared for at a distance, and had known that they
delighted to remember him. [A Christmas Carol “Stave Three”]
And as I reread
Dickens’ book I couldn’t help thinking about my own childhood experiences of
Christmas. Over the course of my working
life in the church, I have come to love the anecdotes told by my clergy friends
about the Christmases they enjoyed growing up.
I’ve worked most of my career in multiple staff situations—large
parishes, seminaries, and now a cathedral—and in those places we tend to pass
the big holiday preaching duties around.
So it’s safe to say that over the years I’ve heard my share of Christmas
sermons with their attendant stories about big holiday dinners, tales of
working on the yearly Christmas pageant, and even one or two yarns about
dysfunctional family gatherings around the holidays. There’s even been a small miracle or two. I
really have come to love these stories, and not only because they’re usually so
well told.
I
had a very different childhood experience than have most clergy. Not only did I not grow up in the
church. Both my parents worked in show
business, and so the early Christmases I remember took place in very different
settings than did those of my colleagues.
Instead of country church or blazing fireside, think nightclub or motel
room. Instead of a big family turkey
dinner, think Chinese restaurant. Mind
you, I’m not complaining. All told, it
was pretty interesting. But it certainly wasn’t Christmas at Duck Dynasty, either. A little bit of
tinsel can do wonders, and as the only kid in the room I was always fussed
over. But I enjoy hearing the anecdotes
told by my colleagues because they give me a very different sense of what the
holidays felt like in what we used to call “normal” families.
When
I first came into the church, in college, I used to feel a bit sheepish about
my lack of a more traditional background.
Sure, it had its good side:
because I first experienced Christianity as an adult, I never had to
unlearn the stuff they teach you in Sunday school. But this lack of early nurture in the faith
had its down side as well. For one
thing, I was at a loss for sermon illustrations. Who wants to hear the preacher tell a
heartwarming story about Christmas in Las Vegas?
You
and I live in a culture that celebrates youth and worries about growing
old. But aging has its blessings, too--
at least for me. One of the effects of
hearing the Gospels read aloud so often over so many years is that occasionally
some of the deep truths of Christianity actually begin to sink in. When I was younger I was embarrassed about my
upbringing and so tried to hide it. I wasn’t one of those clergy who had gone
to prep school, had three last names, or had grown up singing in the church
choir. I was a kid who’d grown up around
comics, strippers, and jazz musicians. I’d stumbled out of one kind of life and
into another. As a young man, I was
embarrassed about my background. The longer I’ve lived, the more I’ve come to
see that it’s OK.
Here’s
what John says at the beginning of his Gospel:
In the beginning was the Word, and
the Word was with God, and the Word was God. He was in the beginning with God.
All things came into being through him, and without him not one thing came into
being. What has come into being in him was life, and the life was the light of
all people. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not overcome
it. [John 1: 1-5]
That
passage tells us the central proclamation of Christmas: God has taken on human
flesh in the birth of Jesus in Bethlehem. This is perhaps Christianity’s most
startling proposition. It has radical consequences. God became one of us in Jesus. This means at least two things. It means that God now knows what it is like
to be us. And it means that who we are
and how we live is raised to a new level of divine importance. We matter. God feels our joy and our pain. The One we pray to knows what our life feels
like. And more than that: all human life, all human experience, is
important and holy because all human beings are important and holy. By becoming one of us in Jesus, God blessed
and transformed all human life.
And
this blessing and transformation are at the heart of what Christmas means. Your life, your joys and sorrows, your work
and relationships, your story—all of what makes you “you” matters because of
what happened that morning in Palestine two thousand plus years ago. When we
preachers complain about what Christmas has become in our culture, we do so not
because it has become “commercialized” but because it has become
“trivialized”. We have made of it too
light a thing. Sure, the silly ties and
the Santa hats are fine, but we also should be out on the street stopping
traffic and giving people the good news that God has become one of us in Jesus,
that their lives are now charged with divine significance, that it is OK for
them to be who they are.
It
has taken me 40 plus years of living with this story to understand not only its
depth but also its implications for you and me.
As John says at the close of today’s gospel, “And the Word became flesh
and lived among us, and we have seen his glory, the glory as of a father’s only
son, full of grace and truth.”[John 1:14]
That life is the light of all people, and it is available to us whoever
we are and wherever we come from. God
has taken you into the divine mystery.
You are now part of it. Who you
are, where you are from, your story, your past, your future: all of them are holy and blessed and good.
Christmas
comes in cathedrals and coal mines, in country churches and aboard ships, in
lighthouses and nightclubs. Whether you
have three last names or four first names; whether you grew up in church or on
the streets; whether you live in a happy or dysfunctional household; whether
you’re at the top of your game or trying to keep it together: Christmas is for you. In saying yes to Jesus,
God has said yes also to you. It is good
and right to be who you are. Do not let
somebody else’s vision of the perfect Christmas get in the way of your taking
in the depth and passion of God’s love for you.
In John’s
words: “The word has become flesh and
lived among us, full of grace and truth.”
In Charles Dickens’ words: let each of us have a “kinder word for [one]
another on [this] day than on any day in the year”. In my own words: God knows, loves, and accepts you as you are.
Really: as you are. Amen.